My soul sister and me, were wondering the other day ~ Why are we happily single? Is it a phrase we simply use to conform to the world’s standards of the opposite of committed? Or is it something we say aloud to pacify ourselves that we really are happy looking at our friends getting lost in each others’ eyes? Does it have something to do with being afraid of commitment and the innumerable troubles about space and time and attention that ensues?
None satisfied our quench and hunger to know!
Until… We finally hit jackpot!
We’re already in love. Not with one single person, but various parts of various people! And of late, it’s staring into my face so much, that I can’t avoid writing about it any more.
I’m in love.
I’m in love with the strength of the female who reminds herself each morning that her parents are as important as her boyfriend.
I’m in love with the endurance of the sister who manages to accept me just as I am!
I’m in love with the resilience of the friend who knows how difficult the path is, but keeps at it while people around her do nothing much to pull her up!
I’m in love with the care of the brother who stands by me through thick and thin, making sure my smile never fades. Yes, all you brothers.
I’m in love with the faith of the friend who bared his life’s biggest secrets to me.
I’m in love with the positivity of this blogger who encouraged me to transform my works from that of a little girl to a young lady!
I’m in love with the love my friend has for his better half!
I’m in love with the ‘chemistry’ I share with a blogger, our thoughts meshing effortlessly each time.
I’m in love with the innocence of my friend’s baby niece! And also his love for her.
I’m in love with how understanding that friend is who never once complained about how my complaints bore him!
I’m in love with the humour of the friend who I’ve never seen without a smile to share!
I’m in love with the passion of that domestic help who went on to join an NGO and is now learning English.
I’m in love with the intelligence of the friend who is as modest about it as one can be!
I’m in love with the inquisitiveness of the cabbie who wanted to know why my destination was named so and what was its historical significance.
I’m in love with the concern that crops up in the friend’s eyes each time my own are welling up.
I’m in love with the compassion of that shopkeeper who feeds those stray dogs and lets them warm themselves in her barely successful shop.
I’m in love with myself for being so much in love, for finding so much to love and for trying each day to love!
Each day I come across beauty, rawness, hope, love, strength, smiles.
Each day I also come across hatred, anger, greed, stealth, deception, frowns.
It is my choice which ones I choose to imbibe, cultivate, remember and fall in love with!
There isn’t lack of love. We just have to know where to look.
I know why I’m happily single. And now you do too.
Graciously Yours!
This is so inspiring and beautiful. I really connected with this. Thank you for sharing! 😊❤️
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Thank you for reading! I know it’s a little long post, but I didn’t want to leave anyone out 🙂
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Truer words have seldom been said… Lovely.
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Thank you, dear!! Much love to you 🙂
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Love is everywhere around us but we are so persistent to find it in ‘one person’ that we lose the eye to see the eternal love around us.
-Naima
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It was very intense and beautifully written, Aditi.
-Naima
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Thank you, Naima! Your appreciation always matters! 🙂
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Exactly what I wanted to put across! Maybe your post on love had something to do with it too… Stirring those thoughts inside me into words 🙂
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Oh trust me, that happens all the time. I read your Vibgyor post and was inspired to write a story. We all inspire each other on this platform.
Much love,
-Naima
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Oh! I could inspire you? I feel amazing! And amazed! 😉
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Ah, we all inspire exam other more than we know and your work is brilliant. Why would it not inspire anybody? :))
-Naima
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Thank you! Thank you so much, Naima! It’s a smiling start to the day 🙂
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I hope you keep smiling for the rest of the week. All the best with that 🙂
-Naima
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Oh ya! Monday blues! Much needed! Thank you 🙂 You too keep smiling and spread the love! ❤
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It’s such a lovely post… I can relate to it…love lives so much around is…. 🙂
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Thank you! 🙂 I’m glad you related… And liked it!
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Beautiful work! This is amazing 😀 and inspiring too 🙂
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Brilliant! I hope the inspiration persists… And we soon see your list of loves! 😉 And… Thank you!! 🙂
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And I love this post of yours Aditi!
Keep it up:)
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Thank you! I’m so glad you liked it. 🙂
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I am there ! I am there !! Yaayy !! 😀
Aditi is in louwe ! Aditi is in louwe ! La lala lala !!
As always a beautiful post with a lovely thought. There won’t be a need for God if people start thinking and loving this way 🙂
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Yes, you’re there! 😉 I wanted to send you the link last night itself but then I thought I’d let you read the post in your own sweet time and figure out for yourself! Required a lot of self restraint! 😛
And that’s a huge, huge compliment to be accorded. Thank you! I’ll keep trying!
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Hehe I can understand. I started finding myself after reading the first line itself. xD
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Really? There were no need for the chemistry air quotes then! 😉
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How beautifully written! 🙂
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Thank you! 🙂 Glad to see you here!
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You’re welcome!
I would be glad if you could checkout my blog maybe? 🙂
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Of course, I would! 🙂 It would be a pleasure!
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Magical…:)
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Thank you! 😉
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Wow! You’ve mentioned all the places where one can find love and the best line being ‘ I’m in love with myself for being so much in love, for finding so much to love and for trying each day to love!’ Thank you for sharing this, I really needed this inspiration! Amazing thoughts! 🙂
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Thank you, Archita! You needed the inspiration? All okay? Is there anything I can do to help? Any post I should read properly maybe?
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Most welcome, Aditi ! yeah, it’s almost okay now..that’s really sweet of you for such a beautiful gesture! 🙂
Those posts have been deleted and if you’ve read them earlier, they were titled ‘Love Attack’, there were three such short stories i wrote from my life experiences. Thank you 🙂
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I do not recall reading them. But as long as things are getting better, you’re good to go! 🙂 Take care!
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Yeah, true that! 🙂
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So true and heartfelt!!!!.. Great post!
All the best to you!, Aquileana 😀
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Thank you! Lovely to see you stop by. How’re you doing?
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Hi AdiC… All is fine… I hope you are doing well!… Sending you all my best wishes Aquileana ⭐
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Yes all is good here! Buenos dias! ( I’m trying my hand at Spanish. )
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This is lovely! I specially loved the part about the domestic help joining an NGO.. That’s.. Wowzie!:D
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Thank you! 🙂 Yeah.. She’s really inspiring! Glad you could stop by!
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I love this!! So well written and beautiful 🙂
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Thank you so much! Glad to see you here 🙂
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What a wonderful attitude that even those of use who haven’t been single for a very long time can still take up and learn from. Thank you for sharing this! 🙂
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Look who’s back! The blog missed you! How’re you?
And thank you 🙂
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Thank you! I’m glad to be back. I’m doing well after a long period of very bad times. All is sunny again now though 🙂
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That’s so good to hear! Take care 🙂
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I could relate it to..I never really gave thought to what made me so happy to be single but these points prove well 🙂 thanks aditi
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Thank you! Glad you related and liked it so much 🙂 Feels good! 🙂
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❤
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Beautifully penned
thanks for sharing !
South Asian Women
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Thanks for dropping by! 🙂
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Beautifully penned! Its like prose poem… I love it… 🙂 😉
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Thank you so much! 🙂 So good to see you stop here!
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Good to know your love side…. I agree, its our choice to admire good or be just hooked with bad….
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Exactly… It’s always our choice… Thanks for dropping in!
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Well, you don’t know what you are missing by being single 🙂
You might actually find a very good partner who could have many of the qualities you could fall in love with. But yes, it’s all about being happy.
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I know what you mean, Alok and I appreciate the sentiment! I’m ready to commit if I only find a guy worthy of my time. I’m looking around 😉
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Best wishes with the search…i know you can’t remain single for long!
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To any of those eligible guys out there, heed to what this gentleman is saying and just hurry along already! 😉
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Hahaha, but don’t be too choosy, unless you want to extend your ‘single-ready-to-mingle’ status 🙂
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Aye aye. Copy that, captain! Over and out 😉
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So true , its amazing and inspiring… Really great
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Thank you! Much appreciated 🙂
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Aditi, dear that’s such an empowering post. I loved it ! And I conform to my happy single hood because eventually I have too come to the similar realisation that I’m already in love with plenty of things, committed to some self made goals, im relationship with my own dreams. So yes, I’m in love. Cheers to this single hood 🙂
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Oh c’mon, join the wagon girl! 🙂 So good to have you here! Why should boys have all the fun, huh? 😉
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My pleasure 🙂
Oh yes. It’s time girls take their roll 😉
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I think Im also in love:) Im in love with everything you write and everything you draw:) Such a cool blog ! Im in love with it
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Oh Arriane! You make my day with such kind words 😀 I am so glad you stopped by!
P.S. : The blog sends love back ❤
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(:
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Love you & your words!
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Thank you so much, Nina! 🙂
Welcome to the blog! I am so glad this post still brings smiles on people’s faces ❤
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